Goal #1 SAM WILL GAIN AN UNDERSTANDING OF HOW INAPPROPRIATE ANGER CAN CONFUSE AND RESTRICT PERSONAL GROWTH AND LIMIT FAMILY INTIMACY

 How I will do this #1: Sam will monitor and identify and journal various situations that proceed anger outbursts (feelings of abandonment, loneliness, temptations, stress, fatigue, criticism by others, being misunderstood by others.)

 How I will do this #2: Sam will begin to develop a personalized anger management plan which will consist of conflict resolution techniques and stress reduction and report his finding to his counselor.

 How I will do this #3: Sam will self monitor and record the kinds of automatic thoughts experienced before an angry expression and report his finding to his counselor.

 How I will do this #4: Sam will maintain a spiritual walk consisting of Scripture reading and other spiritual materials that encourage a godly lifestyle.

 How I will do this # 5: Sam will rehearse through visualization how he would respond to anger provoking matters in a Spirit-controlled manner.

 How I will do this #6: Sam will monitor his actions and reaction to disappointments and stress related issues and report same to his Counselor at each session.  

 Frequency: Daily. 

 Goal #2 SAM WILL RESOLVE ISSUES OF PAST ABANDONMENT

 How I will do this #1: Sam will, through Scripture and meditation begin to apply a Biblical perspective to deal with unmet needs, goals and dreams of his past and apply those Scriptures to his feelings of abandonment.

 How I will do this #2 Sam will formulate a written report on the subject of the Heavenly Father’s everlasting love for His people and present same to his counselor.

 How I will do this #3: Sam will openly discuss feelings of abandonment with his spouse and children

 Frequency: Daily

 Please note that all goals have a projected completion date to allow you to monitor your progress and determine any modifications to your Success plan. As you complete elements of your Success plan, you will be amazed how self-confidence will return and enhance other areas of you life!